With confidence, you have won before you started.
I haven’t always been the most confident person whether that is about myself or when it comes to any decisions that I have made but I have found some tips and tricks that have helped me to become more confident as time has gone on.
- See yourself as you want to be. By this, I simply mean to see yourself as you are proud to be. If we feel bad about ourselves as people, it is because we have a poor vision of how we are. Get rid of these negative thoughts.
- Be nice to yourself. You should always give yourself a compliment every now and again. Look in the mirror and tell yourself, ‘I look good today’. Compliment yourself as much as you compliment other people and love yourself.
- Don’t care what others think about you. This is one of the most difficult things that you can do, but I know for sure you will be better off. The way I do this is to simply know that I am doing my best each day and if that isn’t good enough for people then I don’t need them around. If someone is judging you, that is their problem. As long as I know that I am doing well then that is enough and helps me to feel good.
- Act on what you want and how you want to be. If the future you is to exercise and eat well, then start that now. If you want to play instruments then start learning now. The sooner you start the better off you will be.
Remember, beauty begins the moment you start being yourself.