Have you heard of a flow state?
If not well here it is.
A flow state is the state of being where you do not feel like you are balancing 101 things at once but things are actually falling into place.
You do not fall into line with the expectations of I must do this and should do that. Instead, you are in a space where the things that you do benefit you and that you enjoy it. All your thoughts and actions aligned.
You know exactly who you are and where you want to be and you feel good.
Go out there and get what you deserve and create the life you want.