Pro Con lists have incredible powers.
When it comes to making big decisions I am a fan of pro con lists. I sit there and I think to myself, I wish someone would tell me what the right thing to do is. I then turn to my book or laptop and write a pro con list.
When you see things in front of you, it makes you feel reassured.
More often than not, I you more negatives than positives and in fact you actually really want to do whatever that decision is despite finding more negatives.
I go with the decisions that I came up with before writing the pro and cons list, regardless of my fears or doubts, it just turns out that sometimes you know exactly what choice to make, you just need to see it there in front of you.